Buddhism

    Dai Henwood's TV show on his cancer well worth a look

    CW: Cancer, death

    I agree with this review of Dai Henwood’s TV programme on coping with his stage 4 cancer.

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    This Thursday! Happiness: Find the Joy Within public talk

    Join internationally-renowned teacher and Buddhist monk, Gen Kelsang Rabten for a life-changing talk on happiness.

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    Interdenominational religion in action

    I think our little intersection corner of Pukerua Bay must be the most religious in town. By 10am our neighbour had gone off to the spiritualist church her family goes to; the Methodist church immediately next door on the other side had the full Tongan congregation there (beautiful singing as always); and I was upstairs here doing some Buddhist prayers.

    This is how religions should accommodate each other. Not every religion will work for everybody; when we find one that touches our hearts, we should be able to explore it.

    Photo shows Buddhist shrine with small offering vowels, statues and pictures of Buddhas, a prayer booklet and a mala
    A photo of my shrine

    Gratitude

    Lying in bed thinking of some of the things I can be grateful for:

    • I have a wonderful wife who loves me and looks after me 💕💚
    • Old friends and family visited yesterday for afternoon tea and a fish and chip dinner 💕
    • Children stayed for a wide ranging discussion that included ‘How long could you survive by yourself on a desert island?’, to son talking about IT qualifications he’s doing for his post-construction job
    • More old friends coming to a 1970s themed dinner tonight — salmon mousse and cheese fondue
    • New line of cancer treatment might be showing signs of positive response (early days but fingers crossed 🤞😷
    • Dedicated Dharma teachers who guide me on a spiritual path that is meaningful to me🙏🕉️
    • Inspiring people on social media and in real life communities who are trying to make the world a better place — it doesn’t always feel like it, but there are a lot of us
    • Knowing that most people are essentially good and want the best for everyone

    Faith in dealing with illness

    When my haematologist told me in November last year that, after 13 years of treatment, they had run out of publicly-funded options for treating my myeloma and I had, as a worst-case scenario, a few weeks left to live, it was a bit of a shock. “You could be dead by Christmas,” were his exact words. And yet, here we are, officially in the second half of the new year, and I’m still hanging around—a bit slower and shorter than before—but above ground!

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